Current useless advice
There is a lot of non-sense advice handed out with regard to porn ED.
Stop watching porn, see a sex councilor, stop masturbating – all completely wrong.
For a start the vast majority of men will sooner swallow a razor blade than visit a sex councilor. Masturbating to japanese porn is very habit forming and although they might be able to cut back slightly they are never going to stop completely while their sex lives are not giving them satisfaction.
This sort of advice is going to hold things up or discourage the sufferer completely.
Any form of Erectile Dysfunction can be very damaging to a relationship, so the sooner it is sorted out the better. I wonder how many failed relationships these so called experts are responsible for!
The under lying feeling behind this advice is that porn is dirty so no wonder it's effecting your “normal” sex life – complete bunkum.
Overcoming Porn Erectile Dysfunction
Porn can be a useful tool to liven things up in the bedroom with your partner if used correctly.
In fact when porn is being used it is a sign that things are stale in the bedroom.
If possible, the ideal solution is for both of you to watch it at the same time.
This will give both of you a boost as long as you both feel comfortable with it.
The problem is that some women will take it as an insult. They feel that they should be enough.
Some women have an old fashion idea that because of love, just turning up is enough for their partners to perform.
Unfortunately life isn't like that and sex can become a bit of a drudge without some adventure.
The other complication is that even if you both like porn, you may not want to watch the same things.
So you have to talk to each other and take turns.
Maybe when your partner is watching something that turns her on but doesn't do a lot for you, you can busy yourself on some of her sensitive areas and enjoy her enjoyment.
When porn is an absolute no for your partner, there are other things you can do.
When you're masturbating to porn, don't climax! Leave it for your partner. This will get you into such a state you will probably ravage your partner later on.
When you're having sex with your partner think of some of your favorite sequences from the porn films.
For all you know, she is fantasizing too!